Maryland Blogger: ActiveRain Practices: Deceased Members Designation

ActiveRain Practices: Deceased Members Designation

ActiveRain Practices: Deceased Members Designation

 

Newer members of ActiveRain may be surprised to discover that some of the blogs they might read are by members who are no longer alive. The names of deceased members also appear on the Leaderboard. If you die tonight, you may be remembered by your last blog so you may wish to make every blog you write reflect the way you wish to be remembered.

I would like to see some designation on the Leaderboard that shows that the member is deceased. Perhaps the word "Deceased" behind the name with a date if available would be a nice tribute and a way to recognize these members.

What are your suggestions for deceased members? Should there be a "deceased' designation? 

 

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Comment balloon 31 commentsRoy Kelley • March 09 2020 12:43PM

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Good morning, Roy Kelley yes.... that's a wonderful idea.... very respectful ..... and they deserve to be remembered....

Posted by Barbara Todaro, Marketing Agent for The Todaro Team (RE/MAX Executive Realty ) 16 days ago

I really like your suggestions Roy! A special designation for deceased members would serve two purposes

1. in memoriam

2. to make new members aware

Am just not fond of adding the word "deceased" behind the name. Perhaps a black ribbon across the corner of the profile pic (if that can be arranged), or adding a black star instead of the raindrop or ambassador symbol? 

Posted by Andrea Bedard, M.A.; REALTOR® Silver Spring, MD and beyond (Thompson Company, REALTORS®) 16 days ago

Good morning Roy. I like your line of thinking. Many who have passed still have applicable posts. Enjoy your day!

Posted by Wayne Martin, Real Estate Broker - Retired (Wayne M Martin) 16 days ago

Saw the reblog and I think it is an excellent idea. I have been around here for a long time and I would like to know.

Posted by Joe Pryor, REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties (The Virtual Real Estate Team) 16 days ago

Good morning, Roy... I am in total agreement with your suggestion... hopefully the powers at AR will take it up. I also like your suggestion that we write each of our posts as if it's the last one... they will be our "legacy" at some point.

Posted by Nina Hollander, Your Charlotte/Ballantyne/Waxhaw/Fort Mill Realtor (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage ) 16 days ago

Roy, we do have members that have passed, and definitely want to remember them.  Great idea.

Posted by Joan Cox, Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time (House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373) 16 days ago

I came over this morning from Barbara Todaro 's reblog - I do think this is a good idea. 

Posted by Kat Palmiotti, The House Kat (406-270-3667, kat@thehousekat.com, Broker, Blackstone Realty Group - brokered by eXp Realty) 16 days ago

Good morning Roy. I too wrote about this some time ago to no avail. I think putting Emeritus after a members name would do it.

Posted by Sheila Anderson, The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133 (Referral Group Incorporated) 16 days ago

We may not be aware that the deceased's family or business partners are still receiving business from those blogs.  Designating them DECEASED may put a stop to those potential client calls.

Posted by Liz and Bill Spear, RE/MAX Elite Warren County OH (Cincinnati/Dayton) (RE/MAX Elite 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com) 16 days ago

Hi Roy Kelley - I like Andrea Bedard's suggestion "In Memorium". This is a respectful way to identify a contributor who has passed. Our names appear in blue, a compromise could be the name appears in black print instead of blue, or there could be a change of the "Rainmaker" or "Ambassador" symbol to be in black or a black diagonal through the symbol.  Better yet - make the symbol a Lilly.

Posted by Sheri Sperry - MCNE®, (928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR® (Coldwell Banker Realty) 16 days ago

Having that sort of designation would be a good thing.  Since I schedule blog posts out there is a chance that I will still be publishing posts after my death, haha.

Posted by Brian England, MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ (Arizona Focus Realty) 16 days ago

Hello Roy Kelley,  I hope that Active Rain will see your blog and listen to your suggestion.

Posted by Will Hamm, "Where There's a Will, There's a Way!" (Hamm Homes) 16 days ago

Roy,

We are in full agreement with you.  This is a wonderful suggestion, and I hope AR is listening and reading your post.  A

Posted by Ron and Alexandra Seigel, Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy (Napa Consultants) 16 days ago

Good afternoon Roy - looks of good thoughts here.  Thanks for starting the discussion.

Posted by Grant Schneider, Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes (Performance Development Strategies) 16 days ago

Thank you! That is an interesting idea...

Another week bites the dust Roy Kelley 

Posted by Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS, South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker! (Fathom Realty Washington LLC) 15 days ago

Hello Roy - maybe ActiveRain Member Support would like to add this "responsibility" to their seemingly never-ending list of "things to do". 

Imagine that outcry from people who discover a member who has been left off the appropriate section on the leaderboard or is mistakenly placed there.  And then there are people who get so upset at an omission from the Academy Awards when a celebrity turns up missing in the "In Memory" segment of the broadcast. 

Maybe we need a legal opinion(or the Supreme Court) to weigh in with an opinion.  Ahh, unintended consequences.  Sorry to put a damper on the happy moment.  

Posted by Michael Jacobs, Los Angeles Pasadena 818.516.4393 15 days ago

This is a wonderful suggestion, Roy. While I am not a fan of putting Deceased by the name, some sort of recognition (like the Black Ribbon mentioned) might be a good alternative. 

Posted by Mimi Foster, Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor (Falcon Property Solutions) 15 days ago

Roy- I like the idea and it would be nice if some kind of designation were made. It shows appreciation and respect. 

Posted by Kathy Streib, Home Stager - Palm Beach County,FL -561-914-6224 (Room Service Home Staging) 14 days ago

Posted by Kathy Streib, Home Stager - Palm Beach County,FL -561-914-6224 (Room Service Home Staging) 14 days ago

Posted by Kathy Streib, Home Stager - Palm Beach County,FL -561-914-6224 (Room Service Home Staging) 14 days ago

Kathy Streib 

Thank you very much for your special recognition.

Have an outstanding week.

Posted by Roy Kelley (Realty Group Referrals) 14 days ago

I think that if there was a classy way to make this designation with the utmost respect, that it would be a nice touch...and if staffing is the concern, I would happily volunteer some hours to that maintenance.

Posted by Christine Wade - Real Estate Virtual Assistant, Proud to Serve Your Real Estate Support Needs (Christine Wade) 14 days ago

i hate the word 'deceased' but some designation would be probably good.  Thanks for suggesting this, Roy!

Posted by John Henry, Florida Architect, Residential Architect, Luxury Custom Home Design (John Henry Masterworks Design International, Inc.) 13 days ago

I have mixed feelings about this..not fond of "deceased" and Liz and Bill Spear made a good point. Seems to me this was raised some time ago and AR decided to make any changes.

It is a good reminder to all to think about how you want your social media profiles handled and by whom when you have left this earth.

Jeff

Posted by Jeff Dowler, CRS, The Southern California Relocation Dude (eXp Realty of California) 13 days ago

Good morning Roy Kelley ,

Great discussion and I love Sheri Sperry - MCNE® I like the term "In Memorium"  Its a fitting tribute. If the family has family or business partners they usually change the name of the profile like Laura Cerrano did when her mom passed away. She's done a great job with her posts.

Posted by Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR, Serving Buyers & Sellers in NW Austin Real Estate (Coldwell Banker United Realtors® ~ 512.750.6899) 13 days ago

Roy, a great suggestion and I like some of the other member's suggestions as well.

Posted by Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®, Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate (Vision Quest Realty) 12 days ago

I think that is a very thoughtful suggestion.  I wonder about a special place that members could write farewells to those that are gone, maybe one last blog post to honor them on their site.

Posted by Raymond Henson, SRES, GRI, Realtor (eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277)) 12 days ago

We received a response:

ActiveRain Member Support

Management has been made aware of the request in the past and opted not to make any changes.  I don't see that position changing considering current staffing and priorities.

Posted by Roy Kelley (Realty Group Referrals) 12 days ago

I agree that it's a good idea to differentiate the members, but apparently the hamsters disagree with you.  It's something to be hopeful for though, in the future.

Posted by Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089, Maui Real Estate sales and lifestyle info (Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers) 11 days ago

Or maybe we can call them "cloud based members?"  Not trying to be funny, but something a little softer than deceased might be nice.  Love your thinking!  I see some people still having anniversaries on Linkedin and it's sad that their profiles are there, people congratulating them, and they are no longer alive :( 

Posted by Jan Green, HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN (Value Added Service, 602-620-2699) 5 days ago

Thank you very much for your comments. It is always good to receive your feedback.

Posted by Roy Kelley (Realty Group Referrals) 5 days ago

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